where to draw the line

Sometimes I can be too honest. However, I am one of the few people in the world who are.

So when you think you are sparing someone's feelings or being polite and then later it comes back at you like a wild pack of 2 year olds hopped up on sugar smacks and lolly pops, and some how 3+ people end up getting their "feelings hurt" but the person who was spared to begin with hasn't got a FLIPPIN' clue....

You have to start to wonder. What the HECK was the point in all that mustard???

Maybe I am more naive about people than I think I am...